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Be A Romantic Man

Here are girls think what she want from his man.

Beautiful Kiss

Kiss is the easy way to say your love.

Happy Love Day

Happy Love Day, every day is love day. But it doesn't matter if choose a special day to be different and become special day of love.

Find Me

How hard the day was, we were worried because we will share our pain together. I never go, I always here for you even you and me can't be together. So many nights trying to hide it. But now I stay awake just pleading for more. To think this heart was divided. I'm losing sleep cause I can't ignore...

Falling in Love

Falling in love is a strong instinctive attraction to the person of the other sex. In case it’s mutual and both lovers will work at their relationships one day that feeling can grow into love. Falling in love is crazy, it is very physical, it’s when knees are getting weak and temperature rises, love is calm, comfortable and mental.

How to make girl attracted to you

Many men doing wrong action when they were trying to approach to dating a girl. Many men don't know how to attract a  woman too. So what actually the receipt to make a girl attract to you? Just sneak a little receipt from playboy. Don't think to try to be playboy but sneak their attitude when treat a woman which many woman fall in love with him.
So what it is? You have this receipt, every one has this receipt. It is natural  no need learn anything weird or behavior. You will learn how to give a part of your natural personality to appeal to women. Get a woman to attract, to love and fall in love with you.

In this article, we want to uncover the easy way, however useful that can be used to create attraction with women.

Being Humorous
Keep in mind that women love men who can make them happy by telling jokes, acting funny, do something that will make them smile. Surveys show that humor is a factor of the number one most desirable woman in the person of a man.
Now, when you seriously on any matter interesting and tempting, you'll find that most of the information included humor which produces a laugh and finally build the attractiveness of women. You can refer to it as a funny, sarcastic or joking, humor is one of your greatest tools for your success to attract and seduce women.

But many people may behave incorrectly when trying to be funny around women. To be able to make a woman laugh and interesting at the same time, you have to understand the philosophy. That is why it is important to follow the advice of professionals:

You do not have to be a clown for her

Make a woman laugh is never meant to act like a clown. Doing this way will make you look like trying to conduct hard experiments. That a man who was obviously trying to make a woman laugh. It will show when you talk to her. You have to do it carefully, the tone of your voice, do not you hit the nail on the head, verbose. Of course, make you look like a desperate before her.

It will become part of you, not with you
No doubt, a sense of humor can make a woman laugh.

Continue to tease her
Tell her how her voice has changed into a beautiful, she look beautiful today with the dress that she wearing now, the woman wear beautiful earring or anything that can create a smile on her face.
Your ability to create words that draw even if they lie is a good start until you master it. Joking with women is the best way to create humor. When you try to make her laugh, you do not have to tell the truth. Comedian never told the truth, they always lie. That is the secret of their success. So start with something spicy into the conversation you and your partner. Tell her your plans for her. Tell her the wonderful things you want to do for her. When you do this, it will sound as interesting as you really do what you say. Talk about how you will take care of itself. You can tease with:

- Give her sweet nickname - Depending on how long your relationship with her has grown.
- Mocking voice.
- Tempting the things she says with a joke. Litter flattering to women is a great approach to get acquainted easily.
- Using Body Language. You can use your body language to lift joke. You can use facial expressions, gestures, and shrugged slightly, using hand signals with his hands, speech, etc..

It's all about playing with women. Lift her when you talk to her (make her excited to talk with you). Enjoy yourself when with her, exempt to do anything in the vicinity. Make sure your action at the same time. Again, you do not want to be a clown around women. In certain circumstances, you can make physical contact with her.

In teasing or even trying to seduce a woman, talking about creating attraction, humor is needed and also a very effective tool when you're talking to a woman. You want to make sure that you have done the right thing.

Melt the ice and tension with humor and jokes!

What to prepare before married?

What to prepare before married is not something to prepare for the wedding day but what to prepare for the status after become married. Just like to travel to other place married need a lot preparation because all people hope that they will marry only just once time in their life. This preparation is to prepare our mental because married without mental preparation will damage the lives of your household. Couples who get married without proper preparation would be potentially in conflict constantly, and could end up in divorce. This could be due to the vision and mission of the inequality in marriage. What should have a partner to prepare before marriage?

1. Self-control of emotions
Before deciding to get married, you should identify your emotions and also the level of partner. Introduction emotional level will help you manage your emotions so as not to be drawn. I asked many married couple mostly woman because they were more emotional that they feel after married everything feel so different than before married, further more after they get baby for first time the mother feel that they need more self control. They said that married is like to increase patient for 1000x even you chance to other partner it will always happen so be ready for it.

2. Communication
Ask the receipt of lasting married to some grandmas, they said that communication is very important part and key to have lasting married. Communication should not be done verbally, but also through touch, a smile, a joke, a comment, a desire to listen to each other and support each other. Even more important, communication is not just a hobby or something to ask what her favorite food, but also recognize the emotional needs. Try to communicate as well as possible by using a heart. Show genuine affection and do a lot of complaining on the couple.

3. Conflict resolution
Conflict is common thing because everyone has differences. A must-have partner before marriage is the ability to resolve conflict. All things considered initially completed and according to the way "you and him", but when she got married everything must come to an end by means of "us". That is, if the original decision was based on each individual desire, when already married decisions must be based on a common desire. The ability to resolve conflicts that satisfy both parties is necessary to maintain domestic harmony. Often couples still have a high ego and will not budge because they think that the way to overcome the problem is most excellent.

4. Always self-oriented learning
Self-oriented learning is also other receipt that suggested by grandmas so it is important key too. Usually when beloved late to pick up or cancel a date will make you think all sorts. Well, the thought of this kind must be removed when you are married. Too many negative thoughts will make you suspicious and do not believe the couple. In fact, all the suspicions are not necessarily unfounded. Disbelief this could be the destruction of the embryo-common household. In addition to positive thinking as married couples try to appreciate and respond to the success and failure of a couple with the view that it is a self-learning process.

And girls and boys understand it but there no one is perfect and your desire level to someone won't always same, everything will up and down because it is life. Hope who reach this blog will be happy married couple and lasting till die.

Dating tips for "Single Mom"

To be a single mom sometime dilemma, as a single mom you still need other half and your kids need a father profile too. But when a single mom opened up to build a new relationship, but have a child who is still dependent and demanding attention, some doubt or confusion to start dating. To stay comfortable dating while raising your child, make sure you have the following attitude:

1. Acceptance.
If you are going through a divorce, try to accept the reality of marriage that can not be maintained, whatever the story behind it. That way you can live a new life with the baby, the most precious gift from your previous marriage. Acceptance as this will make it easier for you to build a healthier relationship, both with kids and the new man in your life. Includes easy when you have to start dating, and involving children in new relationships.

2. Decent happy.
Do not limit yourself, that your life now is just for kids, then ignore your personal life. Also notice your personal life does not mean ignoring the baby. You can still pay attention to him, but also open up a new man. Do not also think there will be no men who are interested in with a single mom. Actually think the opposite, that man would be lucky to get you, with children as a bonus. You and your child are an inseparable package. Believe me, you deserve to be happy, appreciated, loved not only by children but also by your other men.

3. Do not rush.
Introduce him to your child gradually. Do not rush to introduce it to your child. Not easy for your child to receive another man close to you, but not his father. Also not necessarily easy for him to familiarize yourself with your child. Just enjoy the time together dating for several months, before finally going along with your child. With a gradual process, both him and your child, as well as yourself will be better prepared to live this new life.

4. Show the facts.
Indicate your life for what it is. That you are a single parent who is busy taking care of things alone. Including if the relationship and communication with ex-husband still poses a number of problems. That way he will see for themselves the facts of your life. With hope, he's able to understand how the hustle bustle of the world you are, and if indeed she loved sincerely, he will accept and adjust to your life. If he can understand your world, it will be easy for you to approach him with the little guy.

5. Let he was dating you and your child.
When you and he's ready, take your child on a date with. Spend time together. You may feel nervous about the situation. Especially if your child suddenly cranky, then corrupted your date. Discard all your worries and just enjoy the time together. Let him adjust to you and your child. When deciding a date, give the new man in your life for you and your child dating. Instead you can judge the sincerity of his love of dating with children.

6. Be honest.
Be honest about your expectations of the relationship. If you want a serious relationship, express. Thus, from the beginning, you and him together to build a relationship with a common purpose. You and he will also be easier to agree on how much energy and time that could be "invested" for the sake of the relationship.

7. Be yourself.
Building a new relationship with creating new hope. Do not ruin a new hope, hurt, because he does not love you or what it is. No need to be someone else, or want him to be the ideal man that you desire. Love him what it is, and vice versa, he should love you for what it is.

Courtesy Kompas.com

Different age in relationship

I have a parent with age spacing different about 10 years, my father is older than my mom and I have an aunt married with a man that 12 years younger than her but when they old they look old together maybe no one realize that age differences between them to far. But sometime I see my aunt act like childish and her husband
look like more mature than her. And about my mom and my dad, I didn't know how their relationship in new married status but according my mom story my father was still like to hanging with his friend a lot than caring about his family. Ya.. maybe my father was not take much about father responsibility, it is something odd or maybe it is that said as a balance and don't see how mature a person by their age but by their attitude, solving problem, act and how they are thinking.

Ya... We can not manage with whom we fall in love and then decide to marry, as they say. So, without your prior plan now you have had a relationship with a man/woman much older or maybe much younger than you. Suddenly, everyone was paying attention to you as aware of the difference in appearance between the two of you. When you have walks with your love then some people maybe thinking that you take a walk not with your love one but with your mother/father or brother/sister. Well, no matter what the perception of others about your relationship. Even more importantly, how to live a relationship with a man/woman whose age is much different than your age. Because the age difference will give a big issue for you in life. You need to know how to bridge the gap. Here are some tips about age different in relationship:

Do you match?
Much age difference shows that have different stages of life. Interest and purpose of your life is different. Something that opposites do attract, but what if you and he/she are so opposite? When you decided to have a relationship with a man/woman who is much older, or much younger, make sure that you have a common ground. You both have something that is "disconnected", so you can find a connection with each other. If you manage to find it, the relationship is not impossible to run smoothly. If the intersection is not the case, you better leave.

Talk
When a new relationship is still running, it would probably begin to mention your children and family. Impression, you are in a hurry to marry him. However, if your relationship involves much age difference, talks about the need to be leveled. 
When he's/she's much older, he/she may be ready to get married and have children. Or conversely, when she/he had been married and have children, there is a possibility that he/she just does not want to rush to get married and have more children. So, you have to know how her/his readiness. For that, you need to talk and talk. Is there a future for the two of you? When you know about it from the beginning, you will not be surprised when one day he refused to marry you.

Experience
If you are young and inexperienced about sex, you might be a little worried that she's/he's able to meet the expectations of a much older man/woman. But you need not worry. Sex will always be different for each person. Not necessarily better or worse, but certainly no different. However, having sex with you it will be her/his first experience. So, both of you will still learn something new.
Indeed, sex will be very challenging because you both will mutually explore each other. You do not have to worry about whether or not he/she had ever had to do something. All you need to do is to experiment to find what she/he likes, and of course what you like.

Family
Well, this is more difficult. Families can be a big problem, because when the he/she was a widower You will be dealing well with his ex-wife/her ex-husband, ex-law, or maybe his/her brothers/sisters. When he's/she's a successful man/woman, you may be accused of materialistic by the immediate family. Therefore, when you meet with your family to be polite, and show that you are independent women/man who love their children.
What about your own family? How to explain to them that you are not one choose? Talk openly with them, and explain how it makes you happy. Families may not be immediate liking your choice, but when you and he/she can prove that you are serious about each other, slowly they will accept your relationship.

Go with it
Most important of all, just live what you believe. Do not be too concerned about what people say others. You will definitely hear other people talk about you, but believe that your happiness is the most important. Focus on small world you create with she/him, and let all the talk about your tilted away by itself.

Maybe I need an almanac

Ancient people and some modern people also believing in almanac. Long time ago I read a book Memoar of Geisha, I remember about the geisha story that she never forget to read almanac before taking the activity. Ya... in Japanese and Chinese there are almanac that still using till now. And in Java. Indonesia there is almanac that called primbon. 

Primbon notes like dream meaning, creased meaning etc. 3 days ago I felt my right eye brow feeling creased so strong, it was happened almost for 2 days. According to primbon the meaning that I will meet my love. But since I awoke in the morning of 2 days ago I felt that something bad will happened. Ya... it was. Since I will left my home I felt that. Then I went to bank to register key for internet banking, nothing serious was happened just I felt a little bit nervous and felt that was odd too. 

After finish registering my key internet banking then I withdraw some money to send to my cousin. The teller said that I need to pay some money because it is different bank and in different sub. So I prefer to send to same bank so my cousin need to find a friend who has bank account same with me. Saved my money which I did withdraw again. Waiting for a while the bank account that my cousin will send, bored of waiting then back to home. My cousin sent the bank account after I almost reach my home. Ok... I planned to try my new internet banking key. I remember that I changed my pin in ATM when I save back my money with ATM machine, stupidly I input my ATM pin into my i-banking pin. I did 3 times because I was so sure that my pin was right. Damn... It is blocked automatically. I need to call service and it was spent all my mobile credit. After the admin reset my i-banking account then he asked me to register my i-banking in the closest ATM machine. Ok.... back to the bank.

Ok... I bought medicine too after everything was done then go home. My father told me that he will go to the hospital to see my niece who got accident and her leg broken. Well... I got flu in hospital, it was odd because I am feeling so well before went to the hospital. Then in the night before ready to sleep, I want to drank my medicine. I am searching in my bag, oh... God where is it? My mind trying to find where the hell the medicine. Oh.. No... I did pay the medicine but I didn't bring it home. Oh... no.... And what happened after that? My creased is stopped. So my creased was it signed? I checked Javanese calender the day was Wednesday Kliwon, is bad luck day realy exist? I don't know... sometime I thought that I need to have an almanac like geisha. Don't know should I believing in something like that? Almanac is notes of something that regularly happen. Believe or not sometime the prediction is correct but sometime it is not. But I will take note since now that if I feel creased again I will try to be cautious.
 
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