Different age in relationship

I have a parent with age spacing different about 10 years, my father is older than my mom and I have an aunt married with a man that 12 years younger than her but when they old they look old together maybe no one realize that age differences between them to far. But sometime I see my aunt act like childish and her husband

look like more mature than her. And about my mom and my dad, I didn't know how their relationship in new married status but according my mom story my father was still like to hanging with his friend a lot than caring about his family. Ya.. maybe my father was not take much about father responsibility, it is something odd or maybe it is that said as a balance and don't see how mature a person by their age but by their attitude, solving problem, act and how they are thinking.

Ya... We can not manage with whom we fall in love and then decide to marry, as they say. So, without your prior plan now you have had a relationship with a man/woman much older or maybe much younger than you. Suddenly, everyone was paying attention to you as aware of the difference in appearance between the two of you. When you have walks with your love then some people maybe thinking that you take a walk not with your love one but with your mother/father or brother/sister. Well, no matter what the perception of others about your relationship. Even more importantly, how to live a relationship with a man/woman whose age is much different than your age. Because the age difference will give a big issue for you in life. You need to know how to bridge the gap. Here are some tips about age different in relationship:

Do you match?

Much age difference shows that have different stages of life. Interest and purpose of your life is different. Something that opposites do attract, but what if you and he/she are so opposite? When you decided to have a relationship with a man/woman who is much older, or much younger, make sure that you have a common ground. You both have something that is "disconnected", so you can find a connection with each other. If you manage to find it, the relationship is not impossible to run smoothly. If the intersection is not the case, you better leave.

Talk

When a new relationship is still running, it would probably begin to mention your children and family. Impression, you are in a hurry to marry him. However, if your relationship involves much age difference, talks about the need to be leveled. 

When he's/she's much older, he/she may be ready to get married and have children. Or conversely, when she/he had been married and have children, there is a possibility that he/she just does not want to rush to get married and have more children. So, you have to know how her/his readiness. For that, you need to talk and talk. Is there a future for the two of you? When you know about it from the beginning, you will not be surprised when one day he refused to marry you.

Experience

If you are young and inexperienced about sex, you might be a little worried that she's/he's able to meet the expectations of a much older man/woman. But you need not worry. Sex will always be different for each person. Not necessarily better or worse, but certainly no different. However, having sex with you it will be her/his first experience. So, both of you will still learn something new.

Indeed, sex will be very challenging because you both will mutually explore each other. You do not have to worry about whether or not he/she had ever had to do something. All you need to do is to experiment to find what she/he likes, and of course what you like.

Family

Well, this is more difficult. Families can be a big problem, because when the he/she was a widower You will be dealing well with his ex-wife/her ex-husband, ex-law, or maybe his/her brothers/sisters. When he's/she's a successful man/woman, you may be accused of materialistic by the immediate family. Therefore, when you meet with your family to be polite, and show that you are independent women/man who love their children.

What about your own family? How to explain to them that you are not one choose? Talk openly with them, and explain how it makes you happy. Families may not be immediate liking your choice, but when you and he/she can prove that you are serious about each other, slowly they will accept your relationship.

Go with it

Most important of all, just live what you believe. Do not be too concerned about what people say others. You will definitely hear other people talk about you, but believe that your happiness is the most important. Focus on small world you create with she/him, and let all the talk about your tilted away by itself.