Do you ready for married?

When we was kid we though that getting married is like folks that will be ending like happy ever after. But after we grown up, we must realize and many people said so that getting married is a new beginning. We won't always happy it is life, it will always colorful. After you meet and have been relationship with, then both of you will think how if you both getting married. A question splash on you, do you ready for married? 

Here are some point that you need to think and consider if you are ready for married or not. Ask to yourself and discuss with your partner before deciding to married. Because no one like to fail so we all hope marry only 1 time in life.

Am I really ready to get married?
What your motivation to married? Whatever the motivation of the marriage, either because of love, the demands of parents, or ashamed because of all the friends are married, the most important thing that you are ready to face any significant risks. The right time to share to whom already married so you will know a little bit what married is, so you will have some view about married life.

Do my family and friends like he/she? and vice versa?
It is very important to know and to make sure whether the family has been blessed or not. Because if family already blessed both of you so that no more bumps when you're married. Except if you want to elope.

Am I ready to spend time with him/her forever?
Married... think you will be with him all day long for every day, every month and every year for the rest of your life with same person. Try to imagine, you and he will coexist forever, whether this relationship will be more happy or sad. If you were dating, you both can still be missed because of different home. Ya.. if you are married you will have a chance to miss him/her but do you ready how if you will be bored?

Did we make each other happy?
I think this point very important since you are in relationship did you feel happy with him/her? Because the basic question is, are you happy to be with her/him every day of your life? You have a choice about what and who can make you happy.

What about the financial status?  

This point also very important because today my friend shared with me about her financial status after married. She feels that before married her financial is better because she went work. Now her husband don't let her to work but the financial is not enough beside that she has a baby and can't go to work again because she don't want her baby in infant care. So for all women it is important to know your candidate financial. Not because you are materialistic but many married relationship ended because financial status. So talk it to your candidate about his finance and ask him if you can go to work or not after married.

Where we will live after marriage?
It is important to ask to your partner where you both will live after married whether rent, home alone, or in-laws house? Have their own home, then we and the couple are free to make their own rules. If still renting, you should start making financial plans for when the time is right to own a home. However, the home is a major requirement. Well, if still living at home-in-law, get ready to follow the rules and their interference in our domestic affairs.

Does you and he/she can accommodate all the differences and problems under one roof?
Life never perfect must always be a problem. However, we have the opportunity to deal with the right people so that all the load can be lighter. Is that what you feel when with him? Or he actually add to the problem?

How if you and him/her do not have children?
Does the presence of the child becomes an important thing for you or him? If so, immediately open the chat is to anticipate the worst risks. That is why, some relationship experts advise us to do per-marital check-up.

When will the baby is born, whether you both ready to share their time and raise it together?
Well... For women pregnancy means your body to be fat, ready to change for that? If you and your partner both working, then about who would care the baby? Baby milk and all the maintenance (plus education) need not cost a bit, if you both have it ready? It is not easy anyway, but believe me, if undertaken with the right partner, all can be realized.

I want marry to then I looking for suggestion what to prepare for marry, beside financial and my readiness in inhabitant. Hope it will help for you all who will getting married, wanna propose or already been propose. I hope I will getting married soon with him. With someone who has initial MBB. I like him and I am happy when I chat with him.