Dear someone who hurt me

Dear someone who hurt me,

Did you remember I ever say to you that I don't want to play that game anymore after you? I hope you will remember that forever, you will remember how hurt I was. The hurt is not because of  you left me and choose other girl but the hurt because you cheated on me and betrayal me. I remember when you said that you will marry next month and you didn't ask me before making that decision. While just few days ago on that time we still saying love each other. 

I'm happy that finally you are not the one who deserve to be mine.  Because finally I know your truly face which you covered with mask before. But I still sad when I remember you, the sadness because I feel how stupid I was. I was trusting wrong man and I was blind to you.  And do you know that I'm still afraid to trust other man because I'm afraid with that pain. And till now, I didn't find a man who I can trust. Maybe I'm not lucky as you who fast decide to leave me while you just say that you can't life without me. 

Hahahaha... Now I'm smiling to my stupidly. Spend my rest time for the liar like you. Maybe you still not understand why I'm sad and very angry, maybe you think that I'm too much angry because you left me. You wrong if you thinking like that! The pain because you don't thinking and I was feel like a shit. You made decision to marry other girl without asking me first then when I still can't life without you, you were disappear and not care about me but when I already live in happy life and feel that everything alright then you appear in front of me and mess my life again. You were asking for my help. Do you think how was my feeling that time? Where were you, where your sorry, where is mind, what kind of man you are, what the fu*k up man you are, all rudeness like come to my mind directly and I wanted to kick your ass and laughing to your problem. But I fail to be strong and evil, I only can leave and hide and cry behind you. I felt that I'm the loser and you are the winner.

Dear someone who only thinking of himself hope you will understand what I feel recently.

P.S. Don't ever appear in front of me and bothering my peace life. 

By Momo for stupid someone who left this pain.   

For all people who know the meaning of love, don't left someone like they are just a shit. You don't know what karma you will get in future. For all people ever been hurt just forgive who hurt you. Everything gonna be alright, just smile then the world will smile with you. Fighting!!!

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How to make you have a good quality in her eyes?

Well... I just visit in forum about sharing and advice, I found a very good advice which make think yes we are women hope that you all men to be like this. I think this thread make me think that this is also receipt to all men how to know what girls want. Then I remember how to evaluate a man and think this man has good quality. Ok we will talk about it in long paragraph because to understanding girls is not simple and easy.

Girls... she will always become a thing which hard to understand for men because God knew His creatures, God created something with aim. And God created a man with curious and arrogant but God created a girl with soft and complicated. Why? To make you not bored with each other. Maybe my description is too simple but I think it is right, one of the reason why God make women is hard to understand by men because to make men bored or vice versa.

I'm a girl after some men broke my heart I little quite understand about men but this heart is too soft, it is easy to melting with something which impress me. I think it is happened to all girl in this world (always there are except). Although we ever broken heart and get hurt till we tell to our self no more hurt and pain but in fact we have other relationship and forget the crawling and sobbing. So what kind of man that impress us and think that you are a good quality man?

1. Women like a man who know exactly what he want

It is true that women like a man who know with what they want because a man like this has principal life and we become sure to walk together with him. Walk together in here mean that women want to have serious relationship with you. She want to be sure that we will have good future life.

2. Women like a man who know how and exact time when to give surprise

Surprise make women feel special because we are think that you are man want to spend your important time to think and to arrange that surprise. Gift also can be surprise but don't do it too often because it will change to be something routine and bored that is why I give note that you need to know how and when to give surprise.

3. Women like praises

Praise is one of our weakness, many times we are melting because you are men give us praises. But don't give praise to much because it will change something like a crap.We will left you if you only give us non point phrases because we will bored. Just give some praise like when we are already spend times to make us beautiful, our new beautiful dress, delicious cooking, etc.Remember don't give us to much praise because it will make all your praise like bullshit.

4. Love kids

Well... all women who want to have kid really will melt if know her man know to play with kids. Why? Because if we are take relationship for more serious to be married then the action when you play with kids make us feel that you are ready become our kid's daddy and who love kids must have good love in heart.

5. Women like men who have their own taste

Taste in here is not like testing food but taste about fashion, girl, game, romance etc. Ya... we like men who know their own taste like in fashion but it is must make you good looking too. Why good looking? Good looking is very important because we are women like show off, you know what I mean with show off. Show off in here is we are not shy and proud to bring you to our family, friends or comunity.

6. Women like men who know to treat her

Hahahaha... Great point, but maybe you also think how to treat women? Treat us is very large topic because it is content many subjects. But I give you leak, why the playboy are easy to get girl. Just think for a while. Ya... because they know how to make girl melting by their action. You don't need to take course with them but you can see and learn how they treat their girl. If you got the point then I say who don't like if she is become feel lucky because she get caring man who know how treat her?

7. Women like a fighter man

Don't take this point as you need to fight to get your woman but we like you not easy to give up. How hard it is if you are sure can do it then try to do it. Don't ever showing that you are desperate in front her, because it is annoying and make her unsure with you.

8. Don't say that you like shopping because of there is discount

Hahaha... Women like to shopping and become crazy because there is discount on price. But never tell that you like to shopping when discount time to her. I don't know it is happened to all women or not but I feel when a man like to shopping because of discount think that they are cheap. But it will different if you tell like this, "I need something to buy, well... when I visit the shop it is discount then I bought it" or "I saw same item with quality almost same but I choose this one because it is discount" or something like that. If you talk about discount tell it because you need and want that stuff, fortunately it is in discount.

I think those 8 points are enough for now, I'm sleepy and I'm gonna to sleep. Honestly, I'm not a master in relationship but those pints I got when I was trying to open or while in relationship.

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Kissing under water

I like to collect couples and kissing pictures. Why? I don't know but not only those kind of picture I collected, I also collect perfect, beautiful, amazing and just in time photography shot. Well... maybe my passion of photography have not been paid. 

Yap... let's back to talk about kiss, what is the feeling when you have been kisses? Just can answer every human has own taste so there is no same taste so can't tell you what the exactly feeling when you are kissing, can't translate it into word maybe like that. But kissing is one of way to transfer the feeling of love. 

I don't want imagine it more because now I'm single and I don't want to be feel will miss my x. Someone who left and betrayal not deserve to be remember. Although in here there are some stories talk about him, I don't know I hate him now. I want to forgive him but it is hard and also always cry when I try to chat with him again. I always feel the hurt been betrayal and feels all my sacrifice was nothing. Poor me..

Ok... Here are underwater kissing collection that already in my hard disk quite long time. All pictures I share in here are not belonging to me not they are not my kissing pictures. I didn't take any picture of my kissing moment.

No credit to the photographer because I didn't know who took these pictures, I did collect them about 1 year ago. Enjoy and hope you like... ^^

 

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Do you ready for married?

When we was kid we though that getting married is like folks that will be ending like happy ever after. But after we grown up, we must realize and many people said so that getting married is a new beginning. We won't always happy it is life, it will always colorful. After you meet and have been relationship with, then both of you will think how if you both getting married. A question splash on you, do you ready for married? 

Here are some point that you need to think and consider if you are ready for married or not. Ask to yourself and discuss with your partner before deciding to married. Because no one like to fail so we all hope marry only 1 time in life.

Am I really ready to get married?
What your motivation to married? Whatever the motivation of the marriage, either because of love, the demands of parents, or ashamed because of all the friends are married, the most important thing that you are ready to face any significant risks. The right time to share to whom already married so you will know a little bit what married is, so you will have some view about married life.

Do my family and friends like he/she? and vice versa?
It is very important to know and to make sure whether the family has been blessed or not. Because if family already blessed both of you so that no more bumps when you're married. Except if you want to elope.

Am I ready to spend time with him/her forever?
Married... think you will be with him all day long for every day, every month and every year for the rest of your life with same person. Try to imagine, you and he will coexist forever, whether this relationship will be more happy or sad. If you were dating, you both can still be missed because of different home. Ya.. if you are married you will have a chance to miss him/her but do you ready how if you will be bored?

Did we make each other happy?
I think this point very important since you are in relationship did you feel happy with him/her? Because the basic question is, are you happy to be with her/him every day of your life? You have a choice about what and who can make you happy.

What about the financial status?  

This point also very important because today my friend shared with me about her financial status after married. She feels that before married her financial is better because she went work. Now her husband don't let her to work but the financial is not enough beside that she has a baby and can't go to work again because she don't want her baby in infant care. So for all women it is important to know your candidate financial. Not because you are materialistic but many married relationship ended because financial status. So talk it to your candidate about his finance and ask him if you can go to work or not after married.

Where we will live after marriage?
It is important to ask to your partner where you both will live after married whether rent, home alone, or in-laws house? Have their own home, then we and the couple are free to make their own rules. If still renting, you should start making financial plans for when the time is right to own a home. However, the home is a major requirement. Well, if still living at home-in-law, get ready to follow the rules and their interference in our domestic affairs.

Does you and he/she can accommodate all the differences and problems under one roof?
Life never perfect must always be a problem. However, we have the opportunity to deal with the right people so that all the load can be lighter. Is that what you feel when with him? Or he actually add to the problem?

How if you and him/her do not have children?
Does the presence of the child becomes an important thing for you or him? If so, immediately open the chat is to anticipate the worst risks. That is why, some relationship experts advise us to do per-marital check-up.

When will the baby is born, whether you both ready to share their time and raise it together?
Well... For women pregnancy means your body to be fat, ready to change for that? If you and your partner both working, then about who would care the baby? Baby milk and all the maintenance (plus education) need not cost a bit, if you both have it ready? It is not easy anyway, but believe me, if undertaken with the right partner, all can be realized.

I want marry to then I looking for suggestion what to prepare for marry, beside financial and my readiness in inhabitant. Hope it will help for you all who will getting married, wanna propose or already been propose. I hope I will getting married soon with him. With someone who has initial MBB. I like him and I am happy when I chat with him.

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