Still hope my x will comeback

Sorry for everyone who maybe finding this post, I just want release my pain because I have bf who always like to say would leave me forever, I always let him to go when he said that, then when he left I feel hurt too. I don't thinking that he will leave as easy as that after he did hurt me but I always can accept if he really want to go because already too much fighting between us.

I did told about my bad past but he always mention those and made me feel angry and feel very bad when he in anger, I told those to him because I hope I can forget those and have a mind that those mistake was a not big mistake. And I don't like to feel these feeling which made me weak when he asked to comeback for our relationship.

I want to be strong and cold then I can leave him easy because he already hurt me too much. But always fail after he bag for forgiveness. Maybe I'm too much nice or weak or what? I feel torturing with this situation, but why I always feel like loser because I can't really kick this situation. Sometime I missed my x who diagnosed with brain tumor stage 3, I feel really lose him, I want to care him while he is sick but he choose to disappear and I can't find him now. Last time I heard that he moved to Fiji, it is so far from my place, I can't found him. When with him, I was happy. He is very patient, good looking, has good body(athletic type), tall, nice, independent, confident and has great smile, I was feel so save and very small too. I was feel very lucky when I met him. Maybe he is not the last one but I was feel so perfect and he was felt that too. We were too much happy but I feel really lose him now.

Sometimes I am crying and hope him will comeback. I felt, he is the one that I'm looking for, is enough to find other boy because he is complete me more than your expectation (it was like that). When we were talking feel like very lucky for found him. Yes it was like that, he told me that he was feel that too. I miss the time when I'm with him. It was no fight that made me too much hurt. It was like good moment in my life.

Actually I also thinking, if my x is not for me then let me forget him and have good life. But my bf now can't be like him, because he is not him. Too much fighting, too much hurting and too much crying, I never felt like this with other boys before. He did same mistakes again and again and hurt me more again and again. I want he really leave me when he decided to leave me because when together will fight always. If I compare my x with my bf, feel like my bf is nothing. My x more than my bf, I felt my x is the best one than boys which ever come to my life. I miss my x. I really hope he will comeback and healthy. Please let me to forget him if I don't have a chance to be with him again, if he is not for me. for my M : I miss you........... (T_T)

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Overcome saturation in the relationship

It is natural that the couple did not you ever feel as attractive as it used to be. Eits .. do not necessarily rush to find a replacement, dear! It's just a sign you are at the saturation point of a relationship really. Take a look at doing some simple things the following, for a sensation that is not less exciting with new times you are going with him first. Let's try!

Set aside time for Yourself

Perhaps you've been too often spend time with your partner. Try doing the occasional "me time", such as going to the latest spa, take a complete treatment package from head to toe. And yes, without the presence of a partner of course. If your body is pampered with a myriad of relaxation like this, you definitely will not forget when you're feeling bored with the him.

Change The Routines 

If you have only two dates, this time invite your friend to double (or maybe triple) date. Play the latest DVD, prepare wine, order pizza, and enjoy! But make sure you invite friends who have similar interests with you and your partner. So everybody Will be happy then.

Find a New Place

Malls, cinemas, and restaurants to be places you've been dating? Boooring! Occasionally you may be planning a date that is more adventurous, such as to invite the couple to enjoy a series of outbound activities that test the adrenaline. Superfun guaranteed after this action, you and he will again feel the vibrations which is long gone.

Awaken Memories of the Past

Restoring the memory of early relationships may raise your vibration back to the couple. Take your time to unload the goods which had given him. You might just find a greeting card from a year ago when your spouse work out of town that read, "Hurry home, yes, honey ...". Or you remember the face of panic takes you to the hospital at the time you experience a high fever. Simple things that you realize how the he is your privilege.

Vacationing Together

Try it to plan a vacation to the beach, enjoy the beautiful sand interspersed with warm kisses while welcoming the sunset, or select the area of ​​the city tour by exploring the uniqueness in it with a partner. See it, instead of you remember when you're bored with the relationship, excitement that you feel sure no less fun when she invites you for a first date. (Dian Puspitasari / II / Image: doc. Google)

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The types of men from how they try to impress a woman

Hi girls... It is good to know how the men try to impress the women. From many source like female magazine mention that each type of men has different style to impress a girl/woman that he like. Here some typical of how men impress women:

1. Classical
The man who seduced in this way still adhere to the principle of "man the hunter". So in the pursuit of love, he preferred to act as a chaser. That's why, he was not too interested in women's aggressive in stating the content of the liver.

This type uses a simple and very readable pattern when approaching someone. For example, the man who originally indifferent suddenly began diligently to show little concern. If he's caught the same signal, he will not hesitate to express love.

Flirt flagship of them: "I eat yet?" "Home office at what time?" "You're A time tonight? Can I pick?"

How to seduce like this shows that he is a man who was responsible and understand you. However, he did not like rush says "I Love You" because he wants to know you further. If his efforts to entice you succeed, he will be committed and will not let you just like that.

2. Palpable
No matter target women liked him or not, aggressive or passive, which is obviously a man who did this kind of seduction can be spelled "know what she wants". He did not like the approach that long and wordy. He also likes to show concern with concrete actions, such as sending beautiful gifts. He also likes to tell others that he likes you. He did not easily give up to get your love.

Flirt favorite of this type include: "You're so beautiful" or "I love you". What did he say, that is what is felt. Attitudes to the point it illustrates that he was a man who did not adventurous.

3. Drama
Similar to the previous type, but the difference this type of seduction men often exaggerated and flowery. Not only are the romantic attitude, his words could make you "melt" immediately.

Men of this type are usually able to convince the hearts of women with a variety of tricks that he played. For example, you buy flowers, romantic dinner, take you home, and give attention to millions of film-like drama of love.

The most good he makes seduction like this, "Daddy you're a pilot you? Heart I always fly when with you". Flirt like it was sincere from the heart. Limited only to satisfy the desires and ego have to be a man who wants a lot of women.

4. Polite
This type of seduction style men cling to much of the manners and sexual elements. Although this style tend to be unattractive and shy, but the man who launched a petition like this indicates he had never played around with love.

The he tended more to send a covert signal. Secretly stealing glances and not too comfortable when other people know his feelings. Flirt flagship: "The house we are in line yes ..." or "Yesterday I could ticket, but do not know who would be given"

Actually, the he wants you to be more aggressive, understand what he felt no need to pronounce it clearly.

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The things most desired by a wife from her husband

Want to know what makes women can feel completely happy? Family counselor, and author of Connect to Love, Dr. M Gary Neuman says there are five things that make women feel satisfied with the relationship, and feel happy with their partner. Women are more to be happy if their partner is able to provide these five things for him:
1. Time 

The first thing most desirable women, and make him happy is spending time with her partner. Most women are happy with the relationship, spend 30 minutes every day, alone with their partner. While 24 percent of women admitted to not happy with the relationship in pairs because it only had time alone with her husband of less than five minutes each day.

Togetherness with her husband who makes women feel happy is when both are enjoying time together, without interruption Blackberry or other gadgets.

2. Appreciation 

Currently, women are able to do everything. Women caring for children, as well as working and financially independent. Women feel no objection to do everything, but women also need an award from the husband. The weather was completely happy, when my husband would listen and give appreciation for what he did every day.


3. Understanding 

Happiness for women, one of which is to have a partner who understands it. Even so, women also need to help their partner to can listen. Because men tend not to realize that he is a bad listener.

Therefore, there is nothing wrong if you ask for time to the husband to listen to you. Ask for 15-20 minutes to the husband, Neuman said. Women in fact entitled to a 10-hour attention from her partner, but most men are not adept at listening to their partner during that time. So, ask for a maximum of 20 minutes, so that your partner really focus on you, listen to what you want to convey.


4. Pleasure 

This is one factor that is often lost and no longer perceived women, especially after having children. Job, rent a house, things are a burden and responsibility of families, making the relationship loses the element of fun.

Neuman suggests, married couples need to design routines with such a date, once a week. Although tired after work, a time to a date alone. At least, spent two hours together, at home, alone. Take advantage of this moment by talking together about that things, do not discuss about jobs, money, and children.

5. Affection
One more thing she needs to feel happy, affections. Hugs, kisses, just a surprise call from the couple said, "I Love You", simple things like this coveted female from her partner.

"Give a touch of the woman five times a day, at least 30 seconds, do it every day for one week. If a husband can do this to his wife, do not be surprised when they would feel happier with the relationship", explains Neuman.

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Signs your love unrequited

Currently we are exploring the relationships, the big question that arises is, "Does he/she have the same feeling?" Sometimes these questions can make us dizzy, pale, lazy and afraid for being push away. Do not be worry and afraid boys-girls because girl/boy that you are in date must give you sign. Watch correctly the sign. Well... Greg Hartley help you with the signs, Greg Hartley is a former investigator of a special unit in the United States who is also the author of the book I Can Read You Like a Book: How to Spot the Message and Emotions People Are Really Sending With Their Body Language, body language, eye contact, and touch, could be a clue that is easier for us. Hartley helps us read the four signs that we must find a date, to find out whether he could be a lover's heart.

Signs 1: Consider the distance created

"First and foremost, see how he created the distance when talking to us", said Hartley. So, if the other person at a date we do not feel comfortable to talk with close proximity, it could be a sign that he does not think a more intimate relationship. But if the opposite happens, then it shows he did not just want to know us as friends.

Signs 2: Consider the tone of his voice

If your date we speak with soft tones, according to Hartley it is a good sign. "Because he wanted us just to hear his words. Especially if he wants to share a secret, it means he is already comfortable". Then how should we respond to the situation? Hartley suggested that we stay calm, "Do not just show us the upper hand. Because sometimes it is better to make a man wonder if we have the same taste with him".

Signs 3: Notice how her posture when speaking

Masculinity own form of body language, that is the way with well-built, open shoulders with your chin perpendicular, to successfully create a strong impression. But this only happens if they were to be between men. When dealing with women, especially women who are attracted his attention, the male will be slightly bent so that his posture looks like a little circular. Hartley interpret this as a signal from the male to provide protection to women who had been invited to speak. Shoulders are slightly skewed to create a short distance, the listener, while giving the impression of protecting. "This is a positive sign that he is completely comfortable with you."

Signs 4: Always make eye contact

If your date look that we always provide shade whenever he saw us, then it is a good sign. "That means, he is really fascinated with you and ready to go into a more serious level. So, give a little smile to her happy, "Hartley suggested. For we who can read the sign, then the decision is in our hands. Choose, whether we are worthy of a date selected as a sweetheart or not. Complete this sign with the words our hearts so that the best choice out of our heads.

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Stupid, idiot, and non sense girl!

I still remember his words that he said yesterday, still remind in my heart and still so hurt. Like I guess he is back and asking forgiveness for what he said yesterday. But this heart still in pain and it is not easy to recover as easy as he hurt and then asking for forgiveness.
Still he blamed me that I still not understand him. I become hurt more, if he asked me to understand him then he should understand me too. He thing when call me stupid, idiot and nonsense for me is only a joke like he said. Then when he called me stupid, idiot, and nonsense girl as a joke so his love only joke too.
Then is his love only for feed his desire?
Really I felt so stupid when I heard he called me stupid, idiot, nonsense. I feel serving him is no meaning, it is my obligation but for me serving, caring and keep relation with him because I love him. But this love is not enough to care and keep this relation.
This relationship is not healthy anymore.
I'm bored, I'm bored to dream with you.
I am trying to make my heart as cold as the south term pole. I don't want this heart melt easily   like common ices  when I heard his sweet words.
Baby... you have to learn not hurting my heart always.
You have to learn that girl heart is not stronger like boys heart.
It is so weak till when it is getting too much hurt but always still can forgive.
You don't understand my burden, I tried to shared it with you but you heard it with 1 ear.
I feel disappointed already shared my burden with.
Yea...you are right that I only stupid, idiot and nonsense girl who love smart boy like you.
How can this heart still want to be hurt, but I don't know this heart always accept getting hurt again and again.
This blog is a space to share my burden sometime my joy, my love feeling, my hurt, etc.
I don't know why I like to write more when I'm sad.
Ok baby...  I don't know if I still can accept you again.

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Feels like Forever alone

Feels like forever alone, yes now I i like forever alone.

Feels so hurt, actually I'm tired to have bf but I don't know why I still fall in a love with the name of bf-gf relationship.

I need hubby, tired for bf.

Bf made me get hurt a lot.

Why I need to have bf if bf can't help my problem?

Better to live alone without bf.

Bf only want me to make him happy and to share his burden but he didn't do anything when I'm in depress.

I'm tired want to run away and reach what I want to reach.

I hate him.....

Because of thinking that I had with him then I need to care relationship, spend my time and energy for keeping stupid relationship.

This is very exhausted and now I feel very tired. Waiting him....

I don't know what to do feels like lost my way.

I know I can't be happy always it must be sad time.

When I'm become old then I feel life become harder

This mind also very bad, I'm envious with some girls.

Sometime I feel why I can't be like them?

I have to be more than them, but see now I still stuck in here.

I want to fly.

Reach my highest dream.

But that only dream when I only dream it.

Still don't know which step should I take.

I need help.

Maybe God is punishing me now, because I'm bad.

Ok I will try to accept when people call me bad, idiot, stupid and nonsense, just say yes I'm.

I'm envious when I see a kids can be very happy without any burden, they don't thinking how hard is life.

They want to be adult but they don't know that to be adult is a lot of depress and burden.

Crying is not something to made you get what you want anymore but crying for adult is to decrease burden.

I don't know why God made this life.

There must be a reason.

Life is hard and it is seriously complicated.

Happy life forever alone.

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Meet the candidates laws?

It must be admitted that the love story continues whether or not you can be known after a meeting with the parents of her/his. One bit of attitude, it could be your relationship and even his family did not go smoothly. As a workaround, follow these tricks:

1. We met the mother-in-law, apply the 3P.
What is 3P? Yes ladies, praise, praise, and praise. No need to overdo it. You can praise her worn clothing, cooking is super yummy, or ... responded positively about their child(your lover). Simple is not it?

2. Forget all that you do not like.
No need to keep the image and certainly not to be self-centered. At the beginning of the meeting, the subject must be more about the lovers or mother. The mother likes to knit? Maybe you could like.

3. Ask questions that are safe, he is such a childhood.
Besides the answer will be interesting, you also can avoid mother of all questions that make you nervous.


4. Save a MOPs.
Yep, better known as MOPs or making out in public. Because there are many who think this is not polite. Especially if you show it in front of his parents? Guaranteed, not even hot like seeing your behavior!


5. A mother usually wants to show that he knows better character than your son.
So, when her mother was telling him about your favorite menu or even a bad habit. All you have to do is listen, agreed, and laughed. (Lidya / Cosmopolitan)

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