The things most desired by a wife from her husband

Want to know what makes women can feel completely happy? Family counselor, and author of Connect to Love, Dr. M Gary Neuman says there are five things that make women feel satisfied with the relationship, and feel happy with their partner. Women are more to be happy if their partner is able to provide these five things for him:
1. Time 

The first thing most desirable women, and make him happy is spending time with her partner. Most women are happy with the relationship, spend 30 minutes every day, alone with their partner. While 24 percent of women admitted to not happy with the relationship in pairs because it only had time alone with her husband of less than five minutes each day.

Togetherness with her husband who makes women feel happy is when both are enjoying time together, without interruption Blackberry or other gadgets.

2. Appreciation 

Currently, women are able to do everything. Women caring for children, as well as working and financially independent. Women feel no objection to do everything, but women also need an award from the husband. The weather was completely happy, when my husband would listen and give appreciation for what he did every day.


3. Understanding 

Happiness for women, one of which is to have a partner who understands it. Even so, women also need to help their partner to can listen. Because men tend not to realize that he is a bad listener.

Therefore, there is nothing wrong if you ask for time to the husband to listen to you. Ask for 15-20 minutes to the husband, Neuman said. Women in fact entitled to a 10-hour attention from her partner, but most men are not adept at listening to their partner during that time. So, ask for a maximum of 20 minutes, so that your partner really focus on you, listen to what you want to convey.


4. Pleasure 

This is one factor that is often lost and no longer perceived women, especially after having children. Job, rent a house, things are a burden and responsibility of families, making the relationship loses the element of fun.

Neuman suggests, married couples need to design routines with such a date, once a week. Although tired after work, a time to a date alone. At least, spent two hours together, at home, alone. Take advantage of this moment by talking together about that things, do not discuss about jobs, money, and children.

5. Affection
One more thing she needs to feel happy, affections. Hugs, kisses, just a surprise call from the couple said, "I Love You", simple things like this coveted female from her partner.

"Give a touch of the woman five times a day, at least 30 seconds, do it every day for one week. If a husband can do this to his wife, do not be surprised when they would feel happier with the relationship", explains Neuman.