9 Simple Dating Tips for a Lasting Relationship 💞

Even though Valentine’s Day has already passed, I believe that every couple who wants a long-lasting relationship should keep working to strengthen their bond.

Dating plays a very important role in building that connection — so here are some simple dating tips from me that might help you enjoy every moment together!

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1. Always Wear Something Comfortable 👗

Of course, you want to make a great impression on your date. But remember, looking good doesn’t mean suffering all night! It’s not fun trying to sit through dinner in a dress that’s too tight or walking in shoes that hurt.
So, choose something that makes you feel confident and comfortable — that’s the real key to looking attractive.

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2. Have Fun! 😄

Sometimes we overthink how we look or what our partner might think, and it makes us act awkwardly. Relax! Enjoy the moment, laugh, and have fun. Dating should be about sharing joy, not stress.

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3. Be Honest 💬

Honesty is the foundation of every lasting relationship — whether you’re dating or already married. Always be truthful, because honesty is the best policy and the secret to real trust.

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4. Trust Your Instinct 💖

When it comes to love, trust your gut feeling. If you feel a little nervous but excited, that’s often a good sign! Follow your heart — it usually knows what’s right.

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5. Be Yourself 🌷

Don’t pretend to be someone else just to impress your date. Be genuine. If you act like another person, the relationship won’t last. Treat your partner the way you want to be treated — that’s the golden rule of love.

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6. Be a Good Listener 👂

Everyone wants someone who truly listens. Show that you care by paying attention to what your partner says — it builds deeper understanding and emotional connection.

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7. Be a “Boredom Breaker” 🎲

Dates should be fun! If your partner feels bored the whole time, they might not want another date. Keep things light, interesting, and full of laughter. Small surprises or funny conversations can make a big difference.

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8. Don’t Talk About Your Ex 🚫

Avoid talking about your ex, especially on a first date. It can make things uncomfortable and ruin the mood. Focus on the present and enjoy the person who’s in front of you right now.

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9. Treat Your Partner Well 💝

Treat your partner the way you want to be treated — with kindness, respect, and care. Small gestures of love can mean a lot.

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Those are some dating tips from me! I actually have more ideas to share, but I’m a bit sleepy right now 😴 — so I’ll save the rest for another post.

Hope these tips are useful for you. Enjoy your dates, have fun, and always keep love simple and sincere! 💕

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Tips: Dating With Divorced or Widowed Man

Dating and marry is your issue now because you already want to care or live with someone. Then dating or even married with divorced or widowed need a different preparation than dating or marrying with single man. It is important to know if you consider as open minded person because open minded mean you will accept what the way your couple since you know him but also not living or doesn't care with his past.

With the Widowed

If you find a companion of a widower who divorced his wife dead or dying, there are some important things to note. Try to understand that the "ex" will always be come to your lover life, also his son or daughter. So do not ever compare yourself or otherwise replicate your self to her (the deceased).

Better to introduce your own style and who you are. For example, if the deceased housewife is a graceful woman then try introduce you as the cheerful side. This will give a new perspective, while providing a signal you do not want to replace the mother of the children of your partner. Especially for a widower who not too long ago his wife passed away so she still remain a lot in his mind and the kids then try to lift up the energy and atmosphere by expertise that might be required of children after the death of his mother, for example, you cook healthy food, delicious, fast and lunch school with them.

With the Divorced

If you are dating a divorced man and he relates well with ex-wife, then you need to be encouraged. In this condition, usually the former is often arise in the life of your spouse, especially if there are children from first marriage. Whether it is communicate by a phone call or shuttle service transports children to the school, its make the children have to divide their time off, so sometimes they had to meet to discuss various things about the child.

You have to be prepared to deal with and interact with the former is a regular. You do not have to relate familiar with the ex-wife couples, but at least try to have communication with her. Because hostility would bring the former to provoke your children to not accept his new mother.

Divorce and child-rearing duties are also not cheap prices.You have to accept that their financial future is now and will not be entirely to you. For example, it could be he will reduce the dinner with you, because the money being drained to the child's school registration fees or other purposes. Bitter indeed, but this shows responsibility. Another thing, you also need to prepare ourselves with the notion or the bad girl bullies. The divorce itself was very painful. Now, the ex or the kids have to face the new love of his father.

Hope it will help. Courtesy by Kompas.com

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How to make you have a good quality in her eyes?

Well... I just visit in forum about sharing and advice, I found a very good advice which make think yes we are women hope that you all men to be like this. I think this thread make me think that this is also receipt to all men how to know what girls want. Then I remember how to evaluate a man and think this man has good quality. Ok we will talk about it in long paragraph because to understanding girls is not simple and easy.

Girls... she will always become a thing which hard to understand for men because God knew His creatures, God created something with aim. And God created a man with curious and arrogant but God created a girl with soft and complicated. Why? To make you not bored with each other. Maybe my description is too simple but I think it is right, one of the reason why God make women is hard to understand by men because to make men bored or vice versa.

I'm a girl after some men broke my heart I little quite understand about men but this heart is too soft, it is easy to melting with something which impress me. I think it is happened to all girl in this world (always there are except). Although we ever broken heart and get hurt till we tell to our self no more hurt and pain but in fact we have other relationship and forget the crawling and sobbing. So what kind of man that impress us and think that you are a good quality man?

1. Women like a man who know exactly what he want

It is true that women like a man who know with what they want because a man like this has principal life and we become sure to walk together with him. Walk together in here mean that women want to have serious relationship with you. She want to be sure that we will have good future life.

2. Women like a man who know how and exact time when to give surprise

Surprise make women feel special because we are think that you are man want to spend your important time to think and to arrange that surprise. Gift also can be surprise but don't do it too often because it will change to be something routine and bored that is why I give note that you need to know how and when to give surprise.

3. Women like praises

Praise is one of our weakness, many times we are melting because you are men give us praises. But don't give praise to much because it will change something like a crap.We will left you if you only give us non point phrases because we will bored. Just give some praise like when we are already spend times to make us beautiful, our new beautiful dress, delicious cooking, etc.Remember don't give us to much praise because it will make all your praise like bullshit.

4. Love kids

Well... all women who want to have kid really will melt if know her man know to play with kids. Why? Because if we are take relationship for more serious to be married then the action when you play with kids make us feel that you are ready become our kid's daddy and who love kids must have good love in heart.

5. Women like men who have their own taste

Taste in here is not like testing food but taste about fashion, girl, game, romance etc. Ya... we like men who know their own taste like in fashion but it is must make you good looking too. Why good looking? Good looking is very important because we are women like show off, you know what I mean with show off. Show off in here is we are not shy and proud to bring you to our family, friends or comunity.

6. Women like men who know to treat her

Hahahaha... Great point, but maybe you also think how to treat women? Treat us is very large topic because it is content many subjects. But I give you leak, why the playboy are easy to get girl. Just think for a while. Ya... because they know how to make girl melting by their action. You don't need to take course with them but you can see and learn how they treat their girl. If you got the point then I say who don't like if she is become feel lucky because she get caring man who know how treat her?

7. Women like a fighter man

Don't take this point as you need to fight to get your woman but we like you not easy to give up. How hard it is if you are sure can do it then try to do it. Don't ever showing that you are desperate in front her, because it is annoying and make her unsure with you.

8. Don't say that you like shopping because of there is discount

Hahaha... Women like to shopping and become crazy because there is discount on price. But never tell that you like to shopping when discount time to her. I don't know it is happened to all women or not but I feel when a man like to shopping because of discount think that they are cheap. But it will different if you tell like this, "I need something to buy, well... when I visit the shop it is discount then I bought it" or "I saw same item with quality almost same but I choose this one because it is discount" or something like that. If you talk about discount tell it because you need and want that stuff, fortunately it is in discount.

I think those 8 points are enough for now, I'm sleepy and I'm gonna to sleep. Honestly, I'm not a master in relationship but those pints I got when I was trying to open or while in relationship.

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Love lesson from K-Drama

Korean drama series follows the romance was successfully tells a simple but compelling to the end of the episode. Not infrequently made you curious, could not even sleep thinking about it. Well, special for you, Cosmo present some fun love Fearless tip of the Korean drama series.

The 1st Shop of Coffee Prince

 To attract female customers come to a new coffee shop, Han-kyeol decided to hire employees who were all men. On the other hand, Eun-Chan who has a very tomboyish appearance, financial difficulties and was pretending to be male to get a job at the coffee shop. Until the end of Han-kyeol'd fallen in love with him. Love Lesson: Who says women tomboyish even difficult to get her target men? Creativity, persistence and confidence are strengths that unconsciously you may have. And that's your extra points!

Princess Hours

Shin Prince demanded to be married in order to replace the throne of his father who was seriously ill. The court finally got the idea to marry Shin with an ordinary girl who is headstrong Chae-gyoung. Love Lesson: Chae-gyoung attitude that is, sincere and kind only made him admired men in the kingdom. That's what inner beauty is all about, ladies! Make him melt with sincerity and extra attention that is not made-up!

Secret Garden

Due to a misunderstanding, Joo Won, CEO of a famous department store arrogant, acquainted with Gil Ra Im, a stunt woman, until finally Joo Won liked it. Although initially Ra Im continue to reject it, but eventually the love has grown among them. Love Lesson: It turns out there is the need to know also we play hard. Yes, playing hard to get can make him curious half-dead and added eagerly pursuing you. But remember, do not be too long tide of high prices. Can-can the he was bored and looking for a target other women.








Pasta
Pasta is about a young woman who dreams of becoming an elite chef at an Italian restaurant La sphere. Yoo-Kyung Seo began his career as an assistant chef for three years ranked third in the La sphere, until he eventually became assistant pasta chef and stealing the attention of his superiors. Love Lesson: Have high ideals? Yup make it a reality. Men like women who are independent and knows what she wants. With determination like that, any man can you make to its knees. You Deserve it! (Lidya / Cosmopolitan)

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Your sweetheart very forgetful? These the solutions!

Let alone remember the date or invented the first film you watch to him or her at the beginning of a relationship, the promise of dinner he spoke just before leaving for work he had forgotten. Annoying? Sure! But you do not need too long soluble in pique because Cosmo had a surefire way to "refresh" his memory.



1. Prepare Reminder

Write down your plan later after work with a partner, such as dinner or sex session. Use sticky notes with bright colors, then put in an easy to reach, can in the bathroom, the refrigerator door, or briefcase. He's definitely going to see small objects are very eye catching.

2. Put Items In Place

If he often forgot his wallet, car keys, cell phones, or even his glasses, then you should have a place to store items needed day to day. Well, if the goods are in the same place every day, this will makes him easier to remember.


3. Visualize You and your partner eager to realize the plan to a romantic island?

Well, so that these plans do not end up a mess, make it "remember" if you and he has a purpose. Paste a picture of the island as you want it in his office, tuck a paper "We will be here!" Under the picture. Besides reminding, that image will also be motivated, darling!


4. Stay Healthy

Make sure your partner is getting enough rest, exercising regularly and eating nutritious foods for memory. Option can be raw carrots and fresh fruit. Do you know? All these things can well contribute to keep the works of his memory.



5. Refresh mind

Nagging you certainly will not efficacious for the cure to its forgetful. So try to be more patient slowly to remind him. Perhaps he often forgot because he was tired. To that end, avoid the middle of a tense of alone moment. (Lidya Irawati / Cosmopolitan)

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How You Save Your Relationship From A Break Up?

If you want to know, “how to save your relationship from a break up”, I presume that you and your partner have been going through really tough times lately, to the extent that either both or one of you is contemplating moving out of the relationship. If it offers some kind of solace, let me tell you that you are not the only couple to have reached such a stage. It would make you even more relieved to know that this situation can be reversed and things can get back to as they were, provided both of you are willing to make the relationship work.

Tips on How to Save Your Relationship From a Break Up
For saving your relationship from a break up, the first thing that you need to do is to talk to your partner. There is no conflict or issue in a relationship, which cannot be resolved through talking. If you are not talking to each other, then I suggest that you take the initiative and call your partner. Remember, ego should never ever come in between love. At the same time, when you do talk to your partner, don't sound or look desperate. Do not beg them to stay in the relationship. Instead, simply call up and see whether he/she wants to meet you. If he says yes, consider it a positive sign. If he says no, ask how he is doing and make some small talk. Wait for about a week and then again ask him out. Do not rush things as it will show how desperate you are. Instead, be in control of the situation, by acting maturely and patiently.

Presuming that you two are on talking terms again and your partner has agreed to meet you, the next thing that you both should do is to sit together and analyze what went wrong in the relationship. Here, an important tip to save your relationship from breaking up is to discuss things and not blame one another. Respect, trust, love and open communication, these are the hallmarks of a successful relationship. So, treat your partner with respect and listen to their viewpoint with an open mind. Arrive at the reasons which drove both of you apart and then find solutions for the same together.

Generally, it is seen that relationships fall apart when the partners are not able to give time to one another. With the hectic lifestyles that most of us lead these days, it is no wonder that partners hardly get one to one time on a daily basis. Many of us spend more time with our colleagues as compared to our own spouses. The result? Breakdown of relationships at home and the tendency towards having flings with co-workers or anyone else a person comes in contact with while out of home. So, to avoid all these and to save your relationship, spend quality time with your partner. Go on romantic dates and holidays as you used to when you first fell in love. Join a dance or any other hobby class together so that you can have fun in each other's company. This will certainly help in improving the bond that you two share.

Sometimes, relationships get strained if one of the persons is over possessive and jealous. Both these can be detrimental to one's relationships. Every man and woman in a relationship should remember that the other person has a life beyond the relationship. Respecting each other's space, giving them an opportunity to be themselves and explore various things in life, rather than constraining them, can actually build a strong foundation of trust in the relationship.

Lastly, if things are really out of hand and you two have some issues for which you can't find a solution, it is best that you go in for relationship counseling. A counselor will talk to both of you individually as well as a couple. He can get to the bottom of why you are experiencing problems and suggest some good solutions for the same.

For a relationship to be successful, both the partners should be physically, emotionally and intellectually compatible. Have a frank talk amongst yourself, try to understand what is lacking in your relationship and then work on it. As mentioned earlier, having fun together is extremely important too. So, try adventure sports or read together or go on a holiday. These things will definitely strengthen your bond. In the end, it would pay to keep in mind that some relationships work and some don't. So, even if you two are not able to make your relationship a success, do not be disheartened. Keep an open mind and remember – whatever happens in life, happens for the best!

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