Tips: Make your marriage happy & successful

Marriage Is More Than Love 💕

Marriage cannot be compared to a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.
When we are in a relationship, we often see only the good sides of our partner. But after marriage, we begin to see everything — the good and the worst.

Marriage is also a commitment that is far more complex than a dating relationship. When a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship ends, it hurts — but divorce can be much more painful and deeply affecting.

Everyone dreams of a “happily ever after” after marriage. But in reality, marriage comes with many challenges and tests. In every step of life, there are always tests. Just like building something strong, we need a solid foundation so that we don’t fall easily when we reach higher levels. The same goes for marriage — when a couple survives difficult times, they grow stronger together.

If you have experienced a relationship before marriage, you may have learned important values like being less selfish, having self-control, understanding, and patience. In marriage, you will need all of these — even more.

People often say that marriage requires “a thousand levels of patience.” So don’t think marriage is easy. I’m not trying to scare you — this is simply reality. But at the same time, marriage is a beautiful step in life. Love is still a wonderful blessing.

So, how can we make a marriage happy and successful?

Honestly, I cannot guarantee anything — because everything is in God’s hands. But there’s no harm in trying to follow good and meaningful principles for the sake of our beloved partner.

Here are some beautiful tips I found from Pure Matrimony, and I hope they can inspire you too:

1. Trust each other, support one another, and stay positive.
2. Make your spouse feel loved and special every day.
3. Be humorous, playful, helpful, respectful, and kind.
4. Don’t bring past mistakes into the present.
5. Encourage and uplift your spouse.
6. Avoid comparing your partner to others.
7. Surprise your spouse with something thoughtful.
8. Spend quality time together as much as possible.
9. Take care of your appearance and make an effort for your partner.
10. Listen carefully and respond with sincerity.
11. Avoid unnecessary conflict, dishonesty, and negative behavior.
12. Be open and communicate your worries and problems.
13. When one is angry, let the other stay calm.
14. Don’t let arguments grow — sometimes saying “sorry” matters more than being right.
15. Pray for your marriage and for a strong, loving bond.
16. Always be grateful for your spouse.
17. Say “I love you” often.
18. Keep learning to understand each other.
19. Make eye contact when you talk — it builds connection.
20. Eat together, spend time together, and pray together.

Marriage is not perfect — but with effort, patience, and love, it can become something truly meaningful and beautiful. 💖

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Dating tips for "Single Mom"

To be a single mom sometime dilemma, as a single mom you still need other half and your kids need a father profile too. But when a single mom opened up to build a new relationship, but have a child who is still dependent and demanding attention, some doubt or confusion to start dating. To stay comfortable dating while raising your child, make sure you have the following attitude:

1. Acceptance.
If you are going through a divorce, try to accept the reality of marriage that can not be maintained, whatever the story behind it. That way you can live a new life with the baby, the most precious gift from your previous marriage. Acceptance as this will make it easier for you to build a healthier relationship, both with kids and the new man in your life. Includes easy when you have to start dating, and involving children in new relationships.

2. Decent happy.
Do not limit yourself, that your life now is just for kids, then ignore your personal life. Also notice your personal life does not mean ignoring the baby. You can still pay attention to him, but also open up a new man. Do not also think there will be no men who are interested in with a single mom. Actually think the opposite, that man would be lucky to get you, with children as a bonus. You and your child are an inseparable package. Believe me, you deserve to be happy, appreciated, loved not only by children but also by your other men.

3. Do not rush.
Introduce him to your child gradually. Do not rush to introduce it to your child. Not easy for your child to receive another man close to you, but not his father. Also not necessarily easy for him to familiarize yourself with your child. Just enjoy the time together dating for several months, before finally going along with your child. With a gradual process, both him and your child, as well as yourself will be better prepared to live this new life.

4. Show the facts.
Indicate your life for what it is. That you are a single parent who is busy taking care of things alone. Including if the relationship and communication with ex-husband still poses a number of problems. That way he will see for themselves the facts of your life. With hope, he's able to understand how the hustle bustle of the world you are, and if indeed she loved sincerely, he will accept and adjust to your life. If he can understand your world, it will be easy for you to approach him with the little guy.

5. Let he was dating you and your child.
When you and he's ready, take your child on a date with. Spend time together. You may feel nervous about the situation. Especially if your child suddenly cranky, then corrupted your date. Discard all your worries and just enjoy the time together. Let him adjust to you and your child. When deciding a date, give the new man in your life for you and your child dating. Instead you can judge the sincerity of his love of dating with children.

6. Be honest.
Be honest about your expectations of the relationship. If you want a serious relationship, express. Thus, from the beginning, you and him together to build a relationship with a common purpose. You and he will also be easier to agree on how much energy and time that could be "invested" for the sake of the relationship.

7. Be yourself.
Building a new relationship with creating new hope. Do not ruin a new hope, hurt, because he does not love you or what it is. No need to be someone else, or want him to be the ideal man that you desire. Love him what it is, and vice versa, he should love you for what it is.

Courtesy Kompas.com

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Love your family more than your partner!

When you are happy you will remember your bf/gf but when you are sad you will remember your parents. When you healthy you will miss your bf/gf but when you sick you will remember your parents especially your mother.

You thinking your bf/gf more than your parents.

Sometime you dare to shout your parents because of your bf/gf.

You also dare to run away from home because of your bf/gf.

You think he/she is everything.

But who will always welcome you are your parents.

Only your parents who will love you always although when you are wrong and not good.

See the baby life around you, See how much their parents love them.

You can't remember everything how your parents threaten you but you can saw the babies around you.

Think if they didn't love you then how can you grow up like now.

Your family who were hug and lift you when you were crying.

Your family who did teach you when you can't do anything in baby time.

Your family who were woke up in the middle of night when you were crying because of thirsty and not comfortable, they were love you even they are tired and sleepy.

They were always try to made you happy even they are sad.

Love your family more than your bf/gf.

Open your eyes, look around you, your parents who were always there when you were need them.


I love you my mother, father, sisters and brother.

Hope our life always blessing.

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