Tips: Dating

Although Valentine's day already pass but I think every couple who want to have lasting relationship will always try to strengthen their relationship. Dating is very important role in relationship, so here are some dating tips for you:

1. Always wear something comfortable

Surely you will try to make great impression so you will try to do the best for your look in your dating but it will be worse if you want to look sexy but you wear dress too tight when sitting through dinner or going dancing in shoes you can't walk in.So always wearing comfortable when you are going to date.

2. Have fun

Maybe you are too much thinking if you are looking good for him/she that make you feel clumsy, so be fun and relax. Enjoy it!

3. Honesty

I think honesty is the receipt of lasting couple, for those who are dating or married. So be honest always because honesty is the best policy!

4. Trust your instinct
"When it comes to love, you absolutely must trust your instincts. When you feel a little nervous, that's when you know!"

5. Be yourself
"Don’t play games, and always be yourself. Treat others as you would want to be treated yourself." Ya... if you act to be like other people or figure then I'm sure it won't last.

6. Good listener
Every people need someone who can listen what they say.

7. Good bored breaker
When you are dating surely that you want to have fun and feel your couple feel bored in your whole dating then I think he/she don't want to have other dating.

8. Don't talk your X
Don't talk your X is something that you must try to avoid in your first date, because you usually talking X will make you and he/she become uncomfortable and the moment can change become unwanted.

9. Treat your partner best

Treat your partner as best as you can, like you want she/he treat same for you.

Those are tips dating from me, I still have some list but I'm forget because now I'm too sleepy to write more. So hope these tips help and useful for you. Enjoy and have fun!

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Dear my best friend, do you feel guilty?

Dear my best friend,

I have many words to tell you that I keep in my draft, I keep them because I don't want to read any letter from you that no heart inside. I don't want to read the meaningless answer while I was writing the letter with hoping that I will get a reply that make me smile like before. Sometime this one need help, need someone to solve her problem, someone to listen all craps, or someone just exist there to lighten the burdens. You were there, cheers her life, but it's ok, I did learn now.

I have many words to say, this one as my answer of your last letter that I don't want to answer because I don't understand what the reason for you to sent it. We are not a puppet, we are human which get wonderful gifts from The Creator, mind to think and heart to feel. I know you are smart, I'm sure you can read. Read is not only from book, but read also what nature send to you. Ya... I know it is not easy to understand everything but The Creator lead human by their mind and heart. Everything happened because there is reason, ya it is called as casual relation.

My friend, are you feel guilty now after you feel that you make me hurt? It is not necessary to feel guilty or worry about me, I'm not your responsible. I'm only a stranger who choose you to put on my precious side as my best friend. It is ok, you and me has own destiny and we don't know what is destiny until we passed it. So don't worry everything is ok. You can say whatever you want and I can say whatever I want too but I did promise won't bother you, so I will keep silence and watch.

My friend.. if you know this site is mine so I'm sorry for entered and bothered your life. I will try not to create any problem for you again because I'm just an unnecessary girl, so you don't need to apologize or worry, just stay cool and smile. It's ok, I will not bother you, actually each time I send email to you I was hoping that short word can make me smile and light. But you said it is all unnecessary, I will keep those memories about our friendship. Thanks for all.

Regard,

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Love letter

Few days ago my friend writing love letter to her dearest one. She arrange her love letter by taking some lyric from some her favorite songs. Her is her love letter:

Dear my dearest honey,

I let you know that 
You are my fire, the one desire... Oh my love... I love you with fire red, don't turn it blue.
I'm your fire, your one desire... Oh my love... I will warm you and wont let you cold.
The angel from the sky maybe giggling because seeing how insane I'm loving you.
I know I wasn't there the moment you first learned to breathe
I wasn't there the moment you got off your knees
And tears must have formed in my eyes when you had your first kiss
But I'm on my way, on my way... wait me till the morning and I'm come out in white.

So many nights trying to hide it
I'm losing sleep cause I can't ignore...
Feeling your touch all around
Peacefully hearing the sound
Of silence around us, I'm so glad we found us this way
Find me, find me here in your arms

Don't ever leave me, baby.... without leave some morphine
‘Cause it would take a whole lot of medication
To cure me from realize what I used to have, I don't have it anymore.
So keep in mind all the sacrifices I’m making
To keep you by my side
To keep you from walking out the door.

Honey.... maybe there will be no sunlight if you leave me baby...
Maybe There will be also no clear skies if I lose you, baby
Then my day will gloomy and just like the clouds my eyes will do the same, if you walk away
Everyday it will rain..

Wait me till the morning and I'm come out in white.
Cause I'm on my way...on my way...
On my way...

Your sweetheart,

I just giggling when I read it because she never writing love letter before. She has romantic sense but when writing about love letter she can't lie or too much flatter. She write with her sincere and honest feeling although it is not very romantic but really what she wrote has her deep feeling. I think her sweetheart who will get her is lucky.
Love you my best friend.

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Rose symbolizing the feeling of love in Valentine Day

Love, romance or even Valentines Day is always associated with the color pink, bubbly and roses. Why Valentine and symbolizing the feeling of love is always synonymous with roses?

The day to celebrate of love is known with name as Valentines Day. Although the description of the day of love one is global, but many couples or who is in the dating process utilizing a single day in February 14 to further share her love with her ​​beloved.

In any images, photographs, paintings, film or anything related to Valentine, it is common using symbols  love hearts and roses.

According to research from the University of Illinois, rose was first discovered in mainland Central Asia around 70 million years ago. The first civilization to pay more attention to the flowers which have different colors and build up to the northern hemisphere.

In these ancient civilizations, the rose is also used to symbolize love and appreciation flower. Although there is no scientific proof of the existence of the first roses, but many researchers believe that a rose named Rosa Gallica oldest known also by the name of French roses.

In the ancient Persians, the rose is also used as a symbol of love and is believed to be a wonderful symbol of the spirit. The News (13/02) launch, said previous studies that first rose just not as red as it is today. The first roses are believed to pink and white and develop into red as a result of fertilization of a mixture of several centuries thereafter.

Around the year 500 BC, Confucius, a famous philosopher, has also written beautiful words with the addition of blossoming roses in his writing. In his article describing an ancient Chinese royal garden, overgrown with lots of beautiful roses nan broke.

Roses on and always used from generation to generation as a symbol of love and romance. However, when the era has begun to change with the development of civilization and technology in it, use the rose as symbolizing love began to decrease.

'It roses is something that has always wanted a lot of girls especially on Valentine's Day, but I'd better give you something else to be desired partner rather than simply giving a rose, "said a Freshman from Bowling Green, Adam Wilkey.

From the use of the rose as a symbol of love, according to Oldroses.org, there is a lot of meaning in every color and every stalk is given. For instance, the red has a sense of love, beauty and courage, pink has a sense of sympathy and beauty, or even a stalk meaningful relationships and love at first sight, 12 stems have a sense of offering love and the phrase "You are for me," or else.

Indeed, many perceptions and descriptions about roses for every person, every culture or every nation. In your own words, what the meaning of roses on Valentine's Day in particular?

source: http://www.merdeka.com/gaya/kenapa-bunga-mawar-selalu-identik-dengan-valentine-dan-cinta.html

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Tips: Make your marriage happy & successful

Marriage can't compare to bf-gf relationship because when we are in gf-bf relationship what we see about our partner are good but after married you will see everything till good the worst. Marriage also a commitment that not simple as bf-gf relationship, when people broken heart in bf-gf relationship it was not hurt as when people being divorce. Every people want that after marriage they will happily ever after but in the fact there will be a lot of test come to marriage couple. For every step of our life there will be a test because to get high level we need strong foundation so it will not easy to fall when we are in high, like in marriage if there is a test and we are survive then we will become stronger couple.

 

Ya... if we had gf-bf relationship before marriage, we did learn how to be not selfish, self control, understanding, patient etc to our partner then in Marriage you will need bigger all of that. Like people said if you marriage you need to be 1000 patient so don't think that marriage will be easy. I don't frighten you but that is the fact and I'm agreeing that. But marriage is one step of my life for every test and love is wonderful and blessing. Then how to make your marriage happy & successful? Actually, I don't dare to guarantee that these tips will successful because everything is manage by God. But why we don't try these good and beautiful tip for our wonderful partner. Here are nice tips which I got from "Pure Matrimony" page hope it will be good tips for all:

1. Trust, help each other, be good and stay positive.
2. Please your spouse and make him/her feel special always.
3. Be humorous, playful, helpful, respectful and entertaining.
4. Never bring your past mistakes in your today.
5. Encourage and give hope to your spouse.
6. Do not compare each other even for tiny things.
7. Surprise your spouse with something new.
8. Spent time as much as you can.
9. Get ready for your spouse as they want you to get ready and look beautiful always.
10. Listen carefully and obey sincerely.
11. Avoid fighting, ignoring, lying, doubting, misbehaving and getting angry.
12. Be open and discuss your problems/ worries to your spouse.
13. If one of you is angry, the other should be quiet.
14. Don’t argue. Simply say ‘Sorry’ whether it’s your mistake or not.
15. Always make Dua to make your marriage successful and your relationship/ bond strong.
16. Always be thankful to your spouse.
17. Say ‘I love you’ to your spouse.
18. Understand each other.
19. Make eye contact while speaking.
20. Eat together, be together and pray together

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