9 Simple Dating Tips for a Lasting Relationship 💞

Even though Valentine’s Day has already passed, I believe that every couple who wants a long-lasting relationship should keep working to strengthen their bond.

Dating plays a very important role in building that connection — so here are some simple dating tips from me that might help you enjoy every moment together!

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1. Always Wear Something Comfortable 👗

Of course, you want to make a great impression on your date. But remember, looking good doesn’t mean suffering all night! It’s not fun trying to sit through dinner in a dress that’s too tight or walking in shoes that hurt.
So, choose something that makes you feel confident and comfortable — that’s the real key to looking attractive.

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2. Have Fun! 😄

Sometimes we overthink how we look or what our partner might think, and it makes us act awkwardly. Relax! Enjoy the moment, laugh, and have fun. Dating should be about sharing joy, not stress.

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3. Be Honest 💬

Honesty is the foundation of every lasting relationship — whether you’re dating or already married. Always be truthful, because honesty is the best policy and the secret to real trust.

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4. Trust Your Instinct 💖

When it comes to love, trust your gut feeling. If you feel a little nervous but excited, that’s often a good sign! Follow your heart — it usually knows what’s right.

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5. Be Yourself 🌷

Don’t pretend to be someone else just to impress your date. Be genuine. If you act like another person, the relationship won’t last. Treat your partner the way you want to be treated — that’s the golden rule of love.

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6. Be a Good Listener 👂

Everyone wants someone who truly listens. Show that you care by paying attention to what your partner says — it builds deeper understanding and emotional connection.

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7. Be a “Boredom Breaker” 🎲

Dates should be fun! If your partner feels bored the whole time, they might not want another date. Keep things light, interesting, and full of laughter. Small surprises or funny conversations can make a big difference.

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8. Don’t Talk About Your Ex 🚫

Avoid talking about your ex, especially on a first date. It can make things uncomfortable and ruin the mood. Focus on the present and enjoy the person who’s in front of you right now.

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9. Treat Your Partner Well 💝

Treat your partner the way you want to be treated — with kindness, respect, and care. Small gestures of love can mean a lot.

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Those are some dating tips from me! I actually have more ideas to share, but I’m a bit sleepy right now 😴 — so I’ll save the rest for another post.

Hope these tips are useful for you. Enjoy your dates, have fun, and always keep love simple and sincere! 💕

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Dear My Best Friend, are You Feeling Guilty?

Dear My Best Friend,

There are so many words I’ve wanted to tell you — words I’ve kept in my drafts, unread and unsent.
I kept them because I didn’t want to read another letter from you that felt empty, without heart inside.
I didn’t want to see meaningless replies when I had written with so much hope — hoping for the kind of answer that once made me smile, like before.

Sometimes, this heart just needs help — someone to listen, someone to share the weight of her thoughts, or simply someone to be there.
You used to be that person — the one who brightened my days. But it’s okay… I’ve learned from it now.

There are still many things I want to say.
This letter is my response to your last one — the one I never replied to because I couldn’t understand your reason for sending it.
We are not puppets; we are human beings — blessed by the Creator with both a mind to think and a heart to feel.

I know you are smart. I’m sure you can read — not just books, but also the signs that life and nature send your way.
Yes, it’s not easy to understand everything, but the Creator guides us through both our mind and heart.
Everything happens for a reason — that’s what people call cause and effect.

My friend, do you feel guilty now because you think you’ve hurt me?
You don’t need to. Please don’t feel guilty or worried about me.
I’m not your responsibility. I’m just someone who once chose you to be on my precious side — as my best friend.

It’s okay. You and I each have our own destinies, and we won’t understand them until we’ve lived through them.
So don’t worry — everything is fine.
You can say whatever you want, and I can too. But I promised not to bother you, so I’ll stay silent and just watch from afar.

My friend… if you ever realize that this site belongs to me, then I’m sorry for entering and disturbing your world.
I’ll try not to cause any more problems for you. I’m just an unnecessary girl, so you don’t have to apologize or feel uneasy.
Just stay calm, stay cool, and smile.

It’s okay — I won’t bother you anymore.
Each time I sent you an email, I only hoped that a few short words might bring a little light or a small smile.
But you said it was all unnecessary… so I’ll keep those memories — the ones about our friendship — safely in my heart.

Thank you for everything.

With regard,

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Love letter

Few days ago my friend writing love letter to her dearest one. She arrange her love letter by taking some lyric from some her favorite songs. Her is her love letter:

Dear my dearest honey,

I let you know that 
You are my fire, the one desire... Oh my love... I love you with fire red, don't turn it blue.
I'm your fire, your one desire... Oh my love... I will warm you and wont let you cold.
The angel from the sky maybe giggling because seeing how insane I'm loving you.
I know I wasn't there the moment you first learned to breathe
I wasn't there the moment you got off your knees
And tears must have formed in my eyes when you had your first kiss
But I'm on my way, on my way... wait me till the morning and I'm come out in white.

So many nights trying to hide it
I'm losing sleep cause I can't ignore...
Feeling your touch all around
Peacefully hearing the sound
Of silence around us, I'm so glad we found us this way
Find me, find me here in your arms

Don't ever leave me, baby.... without leave some morphine
‘Cause it would take a whole lot of medication
To cure me from realize what I used to have, I don't have it anymore.
So keep in mind all the sacrifices I’m making
To keep you by my side
To keep you from walking out the door.

Honey.... maybe there will be no sunlight if you leave me baby...
Maybe There will be also no clear skies if I lose you, baby
Then my day will gloomy and just like the clouds my eyes will do the same, if you walk away
Everyday it will rain..

Wait me till the morning and I'm come out in white.
Cause I'm on my way...on my way...
On my way...

Your sweetheart,

I just giggling when I read it because she never writing love letter before. She has romantic sense but when writing about love letter she can't lie or too much flatter. She write with her sincere and honest feeling although it is not very romantic but really what she wrote has her deep feeling. I think her sweetheart who will get her is lucky.
Love you my best friend.

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Why Are Roses the Symbol of Love on Valentine’s Day? 🌹💕

Love, romance, and Valentine’s Day are always associated with the color pink, bubbles of joy, and, of course — roses.
But have you ever wondered why Valentine’s Day and the feeling of love are always symbolized by roses?

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The Day of Love, known worldwide as Valentine’s Day, is celebrated every February 14th.
Even though it’s recognized globally, couples — and even those still in the dating stage — often use this special day to express their love more deeply and show affection to their beloved ones.

In almost every image, painting, photograph, or movie related to Valentine’s Day, we see the same familiar symbols: hearts and roses.

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According to research from the University of Illinois, roses first appeared in Central Asia around 70 million years ago.
Early civilizations began to admire these flowers for their beauty and variety of colors, spreading their cultivation across the northern hemisphere.

In these ancient cultures, roses became a symbol of love and admiration.
Although there’s no concrete scientific proof about the first species of rose, many researchers believe that the earliest known rose was Rosa Gallica, also known as the French Rose.

Among the ancient Persians, roses were also seen as symbols of love and the human spirit’s beauty.
Interestingly, early studies suggest that the first roses weren’t red — they were pink and white, and gradually developed into red through centuries of natural cross-pollination.

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Around 500 BC, the famous philosopher Confucius even mentioned roses in his writings, describing royal gardens in ancient China filled with beautifully blooming roses.

Since then, generation after generation, the rose has remained a powerful symbol of love and romance.
However, as times change and modern life evolves, some people have started to express love in new ways — though roses will always hold a timeless charm.

“Roses are something many girls still hope to receive on Valentine’s Day,” said Adam Wilkey, a freshman from Bowling Green. “But sometimes it’s even better to give your partner something more personal — something that truly means something to them.”

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According to OldRoses.org, every color and number of roses carries its own special meaning:

• 🌹 Red roses represent love, beauty, and courage.

• 🌸 Pink roses symbolize admiration, grace, and sweetness.

• 🌼 Yellow roses represent friendship and joy.

• 🌿 A single rose means love at first sight.

• 💐 A dozen roses means “You are mine.”

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Every person, culture, and nation may interpret the meaning of roses differently.
But one thing is certain — roses remain a universal symbol of love.

So, what do roses mean to you, especially on Valentine’s Day? 🌹💕

source: http://www.merdeka.com/gaya/kenapa-bunga-mawar-selalu-identik-dengan-valentine-dan-cinta.html

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Tips: Make your marriage happy & successful

Marriage can't compare to bf-gf relationship because when we are in gf-bf relationship what we see about our partner are good but after married you will see everything till good the worst. Marriage also a commitment that not simple as bf-gf relationship, when people broken heart in bf-gf relationship it was not hurt as when people being divorce. Every people want that after marriage they will happily ever after but in the fact there will be a lot of test come to marriage couple. For every step of our life there will be a test because to get high level we need strong foundation so it will not easy to fall when we are in high, like in marriage if there is a test and we are survive then we will become stronger couple.

 

Ya... if we had gf-bf relationship before marriage, we did learn how to be not selfish, self control, understanding, patient etc to our partner then in Marriage you will need bigger all of that. Like people said if you marriage you need to be 1000 patient so don't think that marriage will be easy. I don't frighten you but that is the fact and I'm agreeing that. But marriage is one step of my life for every test and love is wonderful and blessing. Then how to make your marriage happy & successful? Actually, I don't dare to guarantee that these tips will successful because everything is manage by God. But why we don't try these good and beautiful tip for our wonderful partner. Here are nice tips which I got from "Pure Matrimony" page hope it will be good tips for all:

1. Trust, help each other, be good and stay positive.
2. Please your spouse and make him/her feel special always.
3. Be humorous, playful, helpful, respectful and entertaining.
4. Never bring your past mistakes in your today.
5. Encourage and give hope to your spouse.
6. Do not compare each other even for tiny things.
7. Surprise your spouse with something new.
8. Spent time as much as you can.
9. Get ready for your spouse as they want you to get ready and look beautiful always.
10. Listen carefully and obey sincerely.
11. Avoid fighting, ignoring, lying, doubting, misbehaving and getting angry.
12. Be open and discuss your problems/ worries to your spouse.
13. If one of you is angry, the other should be quiet.
14. Don’t argue. Simply say ‘Sorry’ whether it’s your mistake or not.
15. Always make Dua to make your marriage successful and your relationship/ bond strong.
16. Always be thankful to your spouse.
17. Say ‘I love you’ to your spouse.
18. Understand each other.
19. Make eye contact while speaking.
20. Eat together, be together and pray together

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