Marriage can't compare to bf-gf relationship because when we are in gf-bf relationship what we see about our partner are good but after married you will see everything till good the worst. Marriage also a commitment that not simple as bf-gf relationship, when people broken heart in bf-gf relationship it was not hurt as when people being divorce. Every people want that after marriage they will happily ever after but in the fact there will be a lot of test come to marriage couple. For every step of our life there will be a test because to get high level we need strong foundation so it will not easy to fall when we are in high, like in marriage if there is a test and we are survive then we will become stronger couple.
Ya... if we had gf-bf relationship before marriage, we did learn how to be not selfish, self control, understanding, patient etc to our partner then in Marriage you will need bigger all of that. Like people said if you marriage you need to be 1000 patient so don't think that marriage will be easy. I don't frighten you but that is the fact and I'm agreeing that. But marriage is one step of my life for every test and love is wonderful and blessing. Then how to make your marriage happy & successful? Actually, I don't dare to guarantee that these tips will successful because everything is manage by God. But why we don't try these good and beautiful tip for our wonderful partner. Here are nice tips which I got from "Pure Matrimony" page hope it will be good tips for all:
1. Trust, help each other, be good and stay positive.
2. Please your spouse and make him/her feel special always.
3. Be humorous, playful, helpful, respectful and entertaining.
4. Never bring your past mistakes in your today.
5. Encourage and give hope to your spouse.
6. Do not compare each other even for tiny things.
7. Surprise your spouse with something new.
8. Spent time as much as you can.
9. Get ready for your spouse as they want you to get ready and look beautiful always.
10. Listen carefully and obey sincerely.
11. Avoid fighting, ignoring, lying, doubting, misbehaving and getting angry.
12. Be open and discuss your problems/ worries to your spouse.
13. If one of you is angry, the other should be quiet.
14. Don’t argue. Simply say ‘Sorry’ whether it’s your mistake or not.
15. Always make Dua to make your marriage successful and your relationship/ bond strong.
16. Always be thankful to your spouse.
17. Say ‘I love you’ to your spouse.
18. Understand each other.
19. Make eye contact while speaking.
20. Eat together, be together and pray together
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