Tips: Make your marriage happy & successful

Marriage can't compare to bf-gf relationship because when we are in gf-bf relationship what we see about our partner are good but after married you will see everything till good the worst. Marriage also a commitment that not simple as bf-gf relationship, when people broken heart in bf-gf relationship it was not hurt as when people being divorce. Every people want that after marriage they will happily ever after but in the fact there will be a lot of test come to marriage couple. For every step of our life there will be a test because to get high level we need strong foundation so it will not easy to fall when we are in high, like in marriage if there is a test and we are survive then we will become stronger couple.

 

Ya... if we had gf-bf relationship before marriage, we did learn how to be not selfish, self control, understanding, patient etc to our partner then in Marriage you will need bigger all of that. Like people said if you marriage you need to be 1000 patient so don't think that marriage will be easy. I don't frighten you but that is the fact and I'm agreeing that. But marriage is one step of my life for every test and love is wonderful and blessing. Then how to make your marriage happy & successful? Actually, I don't dare to guarantee that these tips will successful because everything is manage by God. But why we don't try these good and beautiful tip for our wonderful partner. Here are nice tips which I got from "Pure Matrimony" page hope it will be good tips for all:

1. Trust, help each other, be good and stay positive.
2. Please your spouse and make him/her feel special always.
3. Be humorous, playful, helpful, respectful and entertaining.
4. Never bring your past mistakes in your today.
5. Encourage and give hope to your spouse.
6. Do not compare each other even for tiny things.
7. Surprise your spouse with something new.
8. Spent time as much as you can.
9. Get ready for your spouse as they want you to get ready and look beautiful always.
10. Listen carefully and obey sincerely.
11. Avoid fighting, ignoring, lying, doubting, misbehaving and getting angry.
12. Be open and discuss your problems/ worries to your spouse.
13. If one of you is angry, the other should be quiet.
14. Don’t argue. Simply say ‘Sorry’ whether it’s your mistake or not.
15. Always make Dua to make your marriage successful and your relationship/ bond strong.
16. Always be thankful to your spouse.
17. Say ‘I love you’ to your spouse.
18. Understand each other.
19. Make eye contact while speaking.
20. Eat together, be together and pray together

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How to make girl attracted to you

Many men doing wrong action when they were trying to approach to dating a girl. Many men don't know how to attract a  woman too. So what actually the receipt to make a girl attract to you? Just sneak a little receipt from playboy. Don't think to try to be playboy but sneak their attitude when treat a woman which many woman fall in love with him.

So what it is? You have this receipt, every one has this receipt. It is natural  no need learn anything weird or behavior. You will learn how to give a part of your natural personality to appeal to women. Get a woman to attract, to love and fall in love with you.

In this article, we want to uncover the easy way, however useful that can be used to create attraction with women.

Being Humorous
Keep in mind that women love men who can make them happy by telling jokes, acting funny, do something that will make them smile. Surveys show that humor is a factor of the number one most desirable woman in the person of a man.
Now, when you seriously on any matter interesting and tempting, you'll find that most of the information included humor which produces a laugh and finally build the attractiveness of women. You can refer to it as a funny, sarcastic or joking, humor is one of your greatest tools for your success to attract and seduce women.

But many people may behave incorrectly when trying to be funny around women. To be able to make a woman laugh and interesting at the same time, you have to understand the philosophy. That is why it is important to follow the advice of professionals:

You do not have to be a clown for her
Make a woman laugh is never meant to act like a clown. Doing this way will make you look like trying to conduct hard experiments. That a man who was obviously trying to make a woman laugh. It will show when you talk to her. You have to do it carefully, the tone of your voice, do not you hit the nail on the head, verbose. Of course, make you look like a desperate before her.

It will become part of you, not with you
No doubt, a sense of humor can make a woman laugh.

Continue to tease her
Tell her how her voice has changed into a beautiful, she look beautiful today with the dress that she wearing now, the woman wear beautiful earring or anything that can create a smile on her face.
Your ability to create words that draw even if they lie is a good start until you master it. Joking with women is the best way to create humor. When you try to make her laugh, you do not have to tell the truth. Comedian never told the truth, they always lie. That is the secret of their success. So start with something spicy into the conversation you and your partner. Tell her your plans for her. Tell her the wonderful things you want to do for her. When you do this, it will sound as interesting as you really do what you say. Talk about how you will take care of itself. You can tease with:

- Give her sweet nickname - Depending on how long your relationship with her has grown.
- Mocking voice.
- Tempting the things she says with a joke. Litter flattering to women is a great approach to get acquainted easily.
- Using Body Language. You can use your body language to lift joke. You can use facial expressions, gestures, and shrugged slightly, using hand signals with his hands, speech, etc..

It's all about playing with women. Lift her when you talk to her (make her excited to talk with you). Enjoy yourself when with her, exempt to do anything in the vicinity. Make sure your action at the same time. Again, you do not want to be a clown around women. In certain circumstances, you can make physical contact with her.

In teasing or even trying to seduce a woman, talking about creating attraction, humor is needed and also a very effective tool when you're talking to a woman. You want to make sure that you have done the right thing.

Melt the ice and tension with humor and jokes!

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What to prepare before married?

What to prepare before married is not something to prepare for the wedding day but what to prepare for the status after become married. Just like to travel to other place married need a lot preparation because all people hope that they will marry only just once time in their life. This preparation is to prepare our mental because married without mental preparation will damage the lives of your household. Couples who get married without proper preparation would be potentially in conflict constantly, and could end up in divorce. This could be due to the vision and mission of the inequality in marriage. What should have a partner to prepare before marriage?

1. Self-control of emotions
Before deciding to get married, you should identify your emotions and also the level of partner. Introduction emotional level will help you manage your emotions so as not to be drawn. I asked many married couple mostly woman because they were more emotional that they feel after married everything feel so different than before married, further more after they get baby for first time the mother feel that they need more self control. They said that married is like to increase patient for 1000x even you chance to other partner it will always happen so be ready for it.

2. Communication
Ask the receipt of lasting married to some grandmas, they said that communication is very important part and key to have lasting married. Communication should not be done verbally, but also through touch, a smile, a joke, a comment, a desire to listen to each other and support each other. Even more important, communication is not just a hobby or something to ask what her favorite food, but also recognize the emotional needs. Try to communicate as well as possible by using a heart. Show genuine affection and do a lot of complaining on the couple.

3. Conflict resolution
Conflict is common thing because everyone has differences. A must-have partner before marriage is the ability to resolve conflict. All things considered initially completed and according to the way "you and him", but when she got married everything must come to an end by means of "us". That is, if the original decision was based on each individual desire, when already married decisions must be based on a common desire. The ability to resolve conflicts that satisfy both parties is necessary to maintain domestic harmony. Often couples still have a high ego and will not budge because they think that the way to overcome the problem is most excellent.

4. Always self-oriented learning
Self-oriented learning is also other receipt that suggested by grandmas so it is important key too. Usually when beloved late to pick up or cancel a date will make you think all sorts. Well, the thought of this kind must be removed when you are married. Too many negative thoughts will make you suspicious and do not believe the couple. In fact, all the suspicions are not necessarily unfounded. Disbelief this could be the destruction of the embryo-common household. In addition to positive thinking as married couples try to appreciate and respond to the success and failure of a couple with the view that it is a self-learning process.

And girls and boys understand it but there no one is perfect and your desire level to someone won't always same, everything will up and down because it is life. Hope who reach this blog will be happy married couple and lasting till die.

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